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7 Tips for Scoring the Job of Your Dreams
7 Tips for Scoring the Job of Your Dreams… Can It Be As Simple As 1-2-3?
Guest Authors – The creators of the Pretty Electric Podcast, Gwen Wunderlich and Dara Kaplan, break it down with these simple steps. [divider] . [/divider]
We get it. You’ve dreamed of your “DREAM JOB” for as long as you can remember.
No matter where you’ve been and where you’ve worked its always been, if only if. We’ve live in the ‘grass is always greener’ world, but let us let you in on a little secret here.
Your dream job may not really be your dream job in all actuality, you may just think it is.
Trust us, with as many hours as we spend at work, 90,000 in an estimated lifetime, you really need to make sure you love everything about it – the culture, the people, the process and mission. Set yourself up for success even before you apply and ask yourself a few things first like, is this a company that shares my same beliefs? Will the hours of the job let me take care of my personal wants and priorities? Do I see growth for myself? What’s my plan if I get in the door? What am I bringing to the table? How can I stand out in a position like this? Does this company’s mission align with goals? If it’s a, hell yes (and we hope it is), well then read on and follow these tips and land yourself that dream gig. You got this… oh and PS, be flexible; dreams shift and new opportunities wait around every corner.
TIP #1 – Confidence is King
We’ll say this time and time again, confidence is the most attractive thing that you can display. If you’re not feeling confidant figure out how to get your groove back and we mean fast. May we suggest Beyoncé and the Pretty Electric Podcast? Remember, you need to be THE BEST YOU before you ask others to see the best in you, so start preparing for greatness now.
If this is really your dream job, you’ll want to approach it with a no-fail attitude. Seriously you’re not going to let someone else get the job that’s meant for you are you? So go on, talk to everyone and let them know you are looking to score this new job and how excited you are about it. You’ll see that the energy you put out, you will get back and people will start acting as your cheerleaders and support you along the way. Recommendations and Referrals are helpful of course but figure our your unique way to bust down the door to that coveted gig.
TIP #2 – Create Your Brand
Whether or not you know it, you are a brand. “But I’m just one person, not a brand,” you may say. Incorrect. Everything from the car you drive to the lipstick you wear, to what you post on social media creates you as an overall brand and that’s what employers are buying into. Gone are the days of just getting hired off of a resume. It’s all about the 360 degree approach, not just how many years of experience you have. Companies want to make sure you embody their company culture, ethos and that you have the same values. Do you love dogs, do you look professional enough that they can send you across the country to represent them, do you love life and have a passion for saving the environment? Companies don’t want people to just DO their jobs, they want the people that they hire to live and breathe it.
The core messaging of the company needs to live in the person’s DNA. So whether you’re the brand you want to be today or you need to create the brand you want to be for your future, write it down and recreate your story. Looking to change fields but are worried about not having enough experience? Remember this, you are NOT your past. You are your future.
TIP #3 – Re-write Your Story
Find the relevance in your past work and life experiences. So what if you were in human resources for 10 years, took off for five years and had three kids. Lets think about it. Do you really want that same job you had all those years ago anyway? You’ve grown, the world has grown and so have the opportunities. Figure out what skills you have from your past career, plus, what about all of those new skills you have gleaned from becoming a parent? Three kids, now that’s management skills!
Have you started a blog on the side? Have you done research on the statistics of unemployment and have exciting new information? It’s all in the delivery right? Think about it… If you can tell your whirlwind life story in a fun, exciting, energetic and professional approach, you’re ahead of the game, no?
The truth is, we are all human, everyone can relate. Everyone, including your potential employers has had loves, losses, divorces, families and probably even job losses. Start writing your new story, read it to your friends, recite it over wine and cheese night and lock that baby in. Use that new story to create a killer cover letter for the job hunt. Use that story to message people on LinkedIn and Facebook, screw it, and even use it as your bio on Instagram.
For us over here at WKC, an action packed and humorous cover letter that we can relate to sparks our interest. We will call in someone 10 times faster with a great, REAL cover letter over a boring and professional cover letter that lists all your skills and leads the employer into SNORESVILLE, USA. Energy, people, energy.
TIP #4 – The New Outreach
If you’re sick of black hole syndrome, we hear you. We’ve heard this time and time again, that women have sent hundreds of resumes to listings on INDEED, MONSTER and CAREERBUILDER with no response. Stinks, but not really surprising. Like dating, it’s pretty much who you know. Identify the kinds of brands who you want to work with. Make your own list of companies that you want to tackle, those who have the same values that you do. Send inquiry emails and yes, even call them up. Go for it! Post on Facebook that you are ready to head back into the workforce (use parts of that great story above), ask friends and family to spread the word. Join social media groups and post in there too. People support people that are part of their communities. Make sure you add a great picture with you smiling too.
Stop looking for that perfect opportunity, be flexible, try something new, dreams change every day and in every way. Just do it. The possibilities are endless.
TIP #5 – Re-Invest
Let’s face it, tips from us are great but if you are in it to win it then that means getting up and getting out. There are tons of classes to take online to refresh your skills, whether it’s storytelling, social media, computer skills or, hey, even basket weaving (ok just kidding on that one). Pick something that is relevant to you and invest the little amount needed to brush up on your skills or even pick out a new one. It’s really impressive to an employer when they see that you’ve been out there working on re-educating yourself. Look at all these new skills and information you’ll be bringing to them.
Also, there’s a big women-helping-women movement happening now. Trust us, this is the time, find a new tribe, brush up, score some new skills, help one another and score big.
TIP #6 – Network
Okay sure, you haven’t been on the scene in a hot second but you’re no hermit. Now that you have gotten your confidence back and if you haven’t, then just plan on faking it ‘til you make it. Muster up the courage and the energy and get on out there. Look for local business, cultural and educational groups and events (many of which are free… don’t break the bank here). Search on Meetup.com if you need too. Tell your friends that you are looking to go out and network. Google it. The more you go out the more you will be invited out.
Okay so you can’t make it out at night? How about forming a once a week breakfast group with local women in your area? Calling an old co-worker for coffee? Asking someone you admire out for a walk? The more you talk the taller you will walk. That guy sitting next to you on the train could be the VP of Google who is head of a new woman’s incubator looking for people just like you. What will you say? What will you talk about? The sun, the sky, your new story. JUST GO. There is magic around every corner. Go find it.
TIP #7 – Start Your Own Thing and Start It Now
Okay let’s face it, It’s way harder to find a job when you don’t a have job. It’s a thing, we know. So, what can you do to make money today? As in right now?
You need to consider your mindset here. Do you actually want this dream job or is because you need to make money? Is there something you can do with your passion? Make your own website (FYI…it’s easy on WIX). Were you a former journalist? Why not provide content creation services for big, women-focused companies that need writers for their blogs and social media in the meantime? Used to be a creative director at a top ad agency? Why not create a freelance shop and focus on businesses you love and then pitch your dream job as you would pitch a client?
Reigniting your fire and living your passion helps you shine. It will put the sparkle back in your soul, the pep back in your step. Heck you may be so happy that you actually decide to stay in your current job because you’re so fulfilled everywhere else in life. Also, It gives you something to talk about. It shows that you’re not waiting for opportunity, you’ve taken life by the balls and who doesn’t want to hire a person like that? By starting the motion, your life begins to evolve.
[divider] . [/divider]Pretty Electric is a weekly podcast for women that want to create an electric life of their very own. Hosted by BFFs and business partners, Dara Kaplan and Gwen Wunderlich, the Pretty Electric Podcast includes noteworthy discussions on everything from female entrepreneurship to business advice and to up to the minute pop culture. Champions of all things female, Pretty Electric is a natural progression of Dara and Gwen’s globally acclaimed program, The Enternship. After countless requests from women around the world, the electric duo are now bringing their new weekly podcast in a hilarious format to the masses. The Pretty Electric podcast features interviews with Dara and Gwen’s badass femtrepreneur friends and hilarious personal stories based on the pair’s 20 plus years of owning a thriving Fashion and Celebrity Public Relations firm. The Pretty Electric podcast is for anyone looking to raise their vibrations, start a new side business or make a big life change. It’s also for the woman that just needs a good laugh while being inspired, uplifted and ultimately shifted. Join in to listen and get ready to be completely, utterly and undeniably electric.
Plus Size Fashion Inspiration from YOU! Our fabulous readers share plus size fashion inspo on Instagram!
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Remembering Mia Amber Davis: A Pioneer in Plus-Size Fashion…
Thirteen years have passed since the world bid farewell to Mia Amber Davis, a beloved figure whose vibrant spirit and unwavering advocacy for plus-sized individuals left an indelible mark on the fashion industry. Mia’s sudden departure at the age of 36 sent shockwaves through her family, friends, and the fashion community, leaving behind a legacy that continues to inspire and uplift.
Mia’s journey was one of resilience and determination. Born with a passion for modeling and acting, she fearlessly pursued her dreams despite the challenges that often accompany unconventional beauty standards. Her magnetic presence graced the screens and pages of entertainment, most notably in the cult classic film “Road Trip,” where she fearlessly challenged stereotypes in a memorable love scene alongside D.J. Qualls.
Yet, Mia’s impact extended far beyond the silver screen. As a trailblazing plus-size model based in New York, she shattered boundaries and paved the way for future generations of curvy models. Her work transcended mere representation; it was a testament to self-love, confidence, and empowerment. Mia’s advocacy for body positivity resonated deeply with audiences worldwide, earning her the adoration and respect of countless individuals.
In the wake of her passing, the fashion industry mourned the loss of a true icon. Madeline Jones, editor of PLUS Model Magazine, encapsulated the collective grief, expressing how Mia’s absence left a void that could never be filled. Mia’s commitment to celebrating diversity and inclusivity was not just a profession but a way of life—one that touched hearts and inspired change.
Though Mia’s time with us was cut short, her legacy endures through the countless lives she touched and the barriers she broke. Her journey, marked by triumphs and challenges, serves as a beacon of hope for those striving to embrace their unique beauty and pursue their dreams against all odds.
As we reflect on Mia Amber Davis’s remarkable life, let us honor her memory by continuing her legacy of acceptance, kindness, and unwavering self-belief. Though she may no longer walk among us, her spirit lives on in the hearts of all who were fortunate enough to know her, reminding us to love ourselves fiercely and unapologetically, just as she did.
Plus Size Fashion Inspiration from YOU! Our fabulous readers share plus size fashion inspo on Instagram!
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Unveiling the Power of Self-Care Rituals: Insights into Mental Wellness…
For some of us stress seems to be an inevitable companion, and prioritizing mental health has become a crucial aspect of our lives. As the spotlight on mental wellness intensifies, individuals are increasingly turning towards self-care rituals to nurture their minds and souls. In this exploration, we delve into the realm of self-care practices, unveiling their significance in promoting mental well-being.
Self-care goes beyond pampering oneself with occasional treats; it embodies a holistic approach to nurturing our mental, emotional, and physical health. It encompasses activities that recharge our batteries, soothe our souls, and rejuvenate our spirits amidst life’s demands.
Discovering the Tapestry of Self-Care Rituals
- Mindfulness Meditation: Engaging in mindfulness practices such as meditation or deep breathing exercises can help anchor our minds to the present moment, fostering a sense of calm and clarity amidst chaos.
- Nourishing Nutrition: Fueling our bodies with wholesome, nutritious foods not only sustains physical health but also nurtures our mental well-being. Incorporating fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins into our diets can bolster our mood and energy levels.
- Creative Expression: Whether through art, music, writing, or any other form of creative expression, channeling our inner creativity can serve as a therapeutic outlet for processing emotions and fostering self-discovery.
- Physical Activity: Regular exercise not only benefits our physical health but also has profound effects on our mental well-being. Whether it’s a brisk walk in nature, a yoga session, or a dance class, moving our bodies can release endorphins, alleviate stress, and enhance our overall mood.
- Digital Detox: In an era dominated by screens and constant connectivity, unplugging from digital devices and immersing ourselves in offline activities can provide much-needed respite for our minds, allowing space for introspection and relaxation.
- Quality Sleep: Prioritizing adequate sleep is paramount for mental health and overall well-being. Establishing a bedtime routine, creating a restful sleep environment, and practicing relaxation techniques can promote restorative sleep and enhance cognitive function.
Embracing self-care rituals isn’t just about indulgence; it’s about cultivating resilience, nurturing self-compassion, and fostering a deeper connection with ourselves. By prioritizing our mental well-being and incorporating self-care practices into our daily lives, we empower ourselves to navigate life’s challenges with grace and authenticity.
As the discourse around mental health continues to evolve, integrating self-care into our collective consciousness is imperative. By embracing self-care rituals as a cornerstone of our lives, we not only prioritize our mental wellness but also contribute to the creation of a culture that values compassion, authenticity, and holistic well-being. So, let’s embark on this journey of self-discovery, one self-care ritual at a time, and pave the way for a brighter, more resilient future.
In the tapestry of self-care, let us weave a masterpiece of mental wellness—one nurturing gesture, one mindful breath, and one compassionate act at a time.
What are your favorite self-care rituals? How do you prioritize mental wellness in your daily life? Join the conversation on social media and share your insights!
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SwimStar All Stars Partnership With Renowned Plus-size Model and Swimsuits For All Ambassador, Denise Bidot
Inclusive Swimwear Brand Collaborates with Prominent Plus-Size Model Denise Bidot to Empower Aspiring Models…
Swimsuits For All, a pioneer in inclusive swimwear, proudly introduces its inaugural SwimStar All Stars campaign in partnership with renowned plus-size model and Swimsuits For All ambassador, Denise Bidot. This collaboration marks a significant milestone, nearly a decade following Denise’s groundbreaking “Beach Body, Not Sorry” campaign with Swimsuits For All in 2015, which showcased unretouched imagery aimed at promoting unapologetic confidence.
Denise Bidot and Swimsuits For All have jointly unveiled the SwimStar All Stars nationwide search, dedicated to discovering emerging talent in the realm of swimsuit modeling. Encouraging aspiring models to share their personal narratives, the initiative aims to inspire women of all backgrounds, shapes, and sizes. Following a rigorous selection process, Brittany Wilborn, Camryn Henry, and Sharon Clawson emerged as the chosen winners. In January 2024, these models embarked on a transformative journey to Harbour Island, where they had the unparalleled opportunity to shoot alongside Denise under the expert direction of internationally acclaimed photographer and director, Ben Watts.
Reflecting on the initiative, Denise Bidot remarked, “This was a truly exceptional opportunity to celebrate the diversity of plus-size models and cultivate an atmosphere of support, empowerment, and knowledge sharing. The camaraderie on set was palpable, and I am deeply honored to impart the wisdom and insights I’ve garnered throughout my career. Opportunities like these are scarce for plus-size models in the industry, and it has been a privilege to collaborate with the exceptional team at Swimsuits for All to bring this campaign to fruition.”
The models showcased the latest swimwear offerings from the Swimsuits for All 2024 collection, featuring innovative designs tailored to meet the diverse needs of women, including:
Feel-good Fits: Addressing common concerns such as tummy bulges and fit issues, Swimsuits for All offers a range of fits designed to instill confidence and comfort in every body. Incorporating features like Power Mesh for a smooth, flattering silhouette, and adjustable straps for customizable support, the collection caters to various body types.
Bold Prints & Colors for Summer: The summer swimwear collection boasts vibrant colors and captivating prints, injecting excitement and personality into beach and poolside attire. From vivid neon hues to tropical motifs, the collection encourages self-expression and style experimentation.
Liquid Shine: Introducing Liquid Shine, a striking swim fabrication characterized by a glossy, liquid-like finish, adding an edgy allure to beachwear. Available in multiple silhouettes, including bikinis, Liquid Shine ensures you stand out with confidence.
Bikinis that Suit You Best: The Mix & Match Bikini collection offers a personalized approach to swimwear, allowing individuals to mix and match colors and silhouettes for a bespoke look tailored to their preferences.
Beyond showcasing inclusive swimwear designs, the SwimStar All Stars campaign embodies a celebration of women uplifting one another in an industry often marked by competitiveness. Throughout the week-long shoot, models engaged in one-on-one sessions with Denise, fostering meaningful dialogue about the evolving representation of plus-size bodies in swim and fashion.
Jordan Hauser, Senior Director of E-Commerce & Marketing, expressed, “This campaign transcends conventional notions of body positivity and representation in the swim and fashion industries. It is a testament to the power of storytelling and authenticity in reflecting the diverse experiences of our customer base. We are committed to fostering a movement where women find strength in unity, and we are thrilled to embark on this journey alongside Denise Bidot, one of the industry’s foremost advocates for inclusivity.”
The summer 2024 swimwear collection is now available. For further details about Swimsuits For All and the SwimStar All Stars campaign, please visit www.swimsuitsforall.com.
Imagine being scouted while you are performing a dance routine in baggy clothes and not even thinking about becoming a model. This was in part our cover model’s journey to where she is today. This month we are celebrating our journeys and embracing the steps that have brought us to where we are today.
Get to know our cover model Sharon Dumfries…
Photographer, Milton Goedhoop
Please tell us a little about yourself and how you got started in the modeling industry.
I’m Sharon Dumfries, born and raised on the Island of Aruba but my parents have a different background and are Dutch Indonesian and Surinam Haitian. As a kid and teenager, I got bullied for my looks and for being different, and I had a hard time standing up for myself. It was also hard to find fashion in my size. Taking dancing classes helped me get out of my comfort zone and get better self-esteem during the years. I moved to the Netherlands at 18 years of age to study and today I’m a model and teacher for over 13 years.
I got scouted unexpectedly after dancing a ”Hip-hop and House” routine in my baggiest outfit during a fashion show with primarily straight-size models. I started as a catwalk model on weekends after doing an intensive catwalk and fashion show training, next to finishing my Biology and Teachers degree. A few years later I got scouted by a big brand during a fashion show and this was the stepping stone to getting signed with a bigger agency in Amsterdam.
We have spoken to models from all over the world about the plus size industry in their respective countries, and realize it’s different outside of the United States. Can you share the plus-size industry as you see it in The Netherlands?
A lot of brands tend to book models in the same country, so if you really want to make a career it’s sometimes best to be ”on stay” for a while in the UK or Germany. We don’t have a lot of ”go-sees”. The sizes of most models that get booked are usually smaller than in the US. The sizes size 42- 44- 46- (Sometimes 48) EU are very popular because of the Sample Sizes.
For those of us getting to know you, can you share your work with us as an educator and coach?
I currently teach Biology in High School for the past 12,5 years and have managed to work as a model part-time. I’m also a coach at school and help students with their emotions such as fear of failure. Through coaching, I’m given the opportunity to speak to teenagers who aren’t able to come to school due to anxiety about participating in school in the regular classes, heavy bullying, or being kicked out of school for other reasons. This is still fully new and just started at our school a few weeks ago.
What role do you believe social media plays in today’s society as we raise children and also tend to our mental health?
The stress level is rising earlier on due to pressure to not only be cool and accepted in real life but also online. The level of bullying online is where there is no supervision and it is getting out of control. Teenagers already get burned out at a very young age. There is too much non-visible pressure that everyone needs to be above average. Some try to over-achieve and get burned out and others give up and don’t get to make small steps forward and stay stuck, which in turn also causes a lot of stress.
What tips do you have about navigating social media for both the younger generation and those of us who remember the days before the internet?
I am not the best in Social Media, a little bit by choice. I don’t want it to be a must. But a lot of people make a living out of it. It takes a lot of time and effort, so for it to really make it work it’s a full-time job or you need a team. For the ones who remember the days before the internet: just try, and have a bit of fun along the way trying to figure it out, it all changes so quickly nowadays. But most of all be authentic. For the younger generation, I would say the same. It is not a must as a model to have a huge following. It’s about being visible that counts, that people and brands can find you. It’s best to start small and make baby steps. It took me more than 10 years to get where I am now. I believe working together and genuinely spreading love makes the difference.
As a model, teacher, and coach what are some of your goals for the future and what changes would you like to see in the plus-size modeling industry?
In the future, I would like to combine my knowledge as a teacher, model, and coach. Preferably by helping others to realize what true beauty is. As cheesy as it sounds, from the inside out. In the future, I would like see more diversity and inclusiveness, not as a trend. I would like to see bigger sizes being booked just as often as small sizes. And also better education about what being healthy means. I would like to see more respect from people behind their laptops, to always show love, if there is hate, keep it to yourself ;). In the best scenario, brands need to book models for their charisma and make the clothes fit them. I would like less plastic surgery, and more natural imperfections to be celebrated. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and is different in every culture, never let that define your beauty. You are good enough just as you are <3
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